Positive Mindset- 5 easy but life altering hacks to take you from the “dumps” to your hearts desires

First rule of law of attraction is gratitude and positivity.

You can not manifest a darn thing if you are living in a dark negative space all the time. For some people this is going to be a very hard transition to move away from the drama of negative talk and into the light of positivity but with these 5 quick hacks it can be easier.

1.Wake up in the morning and list out all of the things you are grateful for. Now if you don’t have anything that great in your life right now (that’s why you are reading my blog) then start small. Tell the universe you are grateful you woke up this morning, because who isn’t? Then go down the list I am grateful for the bus system to get me to and from work or my reliable car. I am grateful for my job it creates an income for me to live off of, etc and etc. Go down the list and speak your gratitude for the things you have in your life currently.

2. Stay away from drama filled people and gossipers. You can guarantee if they are going to gossip to you they will gossip about you. Plus you don’t need to hear details of someone else’s misery and pain that is only going to put you into that mindset of emotions consciously or not. The universe can not tell the feelings that are invoked by hearing drama about someone else is not your own. So steer clear of that negativity all together.

3.Cut your own negative self talk out! This is a very hard habit to break as this is something we grow up doing to ourselves but you have to eliminate it. The universe hears all of the “Ugh I’m so fat” and the ” I’m so stupid! how could I say that!” and basically says Your wish is my command. Do not speak these things unless you want them to be spoke into existence.

4.Do not be afraid to choose happiness. You can choose to be happy everyday. Every morning you have a fresh start to re-write your story and it can be with a smile on your face. Yes crummy things are going to happen to you, Your going to spill your coffee on your new shirt, some one is going to steal your parking spot, not let you merge on the freeway and so on and so forth. You can’t let these little things disturb your attitude of gratitude that you cultivate. Some people are so miserable the only happiness they get is bringing people down to there level. But guess what you do not have to join them there. You can just wave to them on by and quietly bless their day because you know they can use the cosmic help! This is muscle you have to practice everyday turning the other cheek but it gets easier over time and guess what, your life gets immensley better.


Law of attraction explained

Busy gals Guide_ Law of Attraction.It’s a vibe, literally

So maybe you have not heard of the law of attraction or maybe you have heard key words like manifesting or manifestation, affirmation, attitude of gratitude. All these things are related to the Law of attraction. This law states that in life everything is essentially energy and has a vibration and power. You, me, our thoughts, the sky, the planets our universe. They are all energy vibrating on the same frequency and it’s all connected. If you are a religious person this is God or the higher power. If you are a spiritual person this is the Source of all things. Every thought you have is energy that is vibrating to attract or deflect your desires.

Now the awesome part, because everything in this universe is connected with energy you can call what you want to be brought into your life by simply focusing on it. If you focus and think often on the bad things in your life those vibrations of pain/sadness/scarcity are going to be broadcasted outside of you like energy beams to the atmosphere around you and your vibrations will bring back those exact things!

Tony Robins said it best “What you focus on multiplies”

This is true because it has to, it’s a universal law! So what it boils down to is positivity brings more positivity, like attracts more like and equally as true – negativity brings more negativity.

What you dwell on or think about in your daily mindset is what you will always create more of. If you perseverate on how you can’t catch a break in your career and how you’ll never get that promotion, well guess what you are creating more of that same reality with those thoughts! That’s right no promotions are coming your way because you told them not to! The amazing thing about the Law of Attraction is that it always works, every single time.

So lets work on a mindset shift to attract the desires of your dreams.







Get to know the “Kary ” on a quest

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Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

A little about my why.

       I started this website to help lead young people like yourself to a new and better life. Using the knowledge and mindset I have gained on the way to my own amazing life I have today I know I can help a lot of people on there own journey from the proverbial gutter to there desires realized. As I am today currently living out all of my goals I created I find myself in the process of dreaming up bigger and better ones and that is where this blog comes in. You do not have to be stuck where you are today. Nothing is holding you back but the your mindset and lack of knowledge on how to change your current reality. I can help you with these things and much more.

       I am a wife to a very handsome, hardworking, loyal family man. I have a great career as a bachelor prepared registered nurse and on the side I am diving into the online motivation forum which I heavily use myself. I worked hard to get where I am today coming from a very low income family living in a bad area of town and I knew I wanted better for myself. Just like I want better for you. Clawing your way to the destiny you know you are meant for is not easy and there is no “get rich quick scheme” here folks that will give you what you will need. But with the things I want to share with you, you can totally change the trajectory of your life as you now know it. Sounds powerful huh and almost to good to be true. But it’s not.

      What if I told you that you can have the things you desire in life. You can achieve amazing goals, yes you will have to work for it. Listen if great things happened to people just because they wanted it there wouldn’t be so many unhappy and uninspired people. By making little changes in your actions and thoughts you can start a catalyst in your life to propel you in the direction towards a dream life. Follow me as I lead you on the quest to change your life as you know it.